Rocking Single

"Girl's don't be with a guy who's the Best for You But be with a Guy who Bring's out the Best In You.........."
Else remain Single!!

Hell Yes!! I'm SINGLE & STUNNINGLY HAPPY...
It's been over a year now since i've been single....
After a lot of observation and analysis i came to the conclusion that relationship's today are either
Competing/Comparing or Compromising...... obviously exceptions are always there ...

I've been in relationship's and flings...Met astonishingly HOT, Intellectual men which made them "Very Tempting & Desirable"....

Fell miserably/crazily in Love, like i always wanted....
The fact that my life was revolving around one person really Frightened Me....
With time realization dawned that "I Was In Love With The Idea of Love" it was not what i wanted from life as i was unhappy & constantly assuring myself that it was just a PHASE, the bright sunny days would be here soon (we would be fine!!)....

Day's turned into months, months into a year.... My Disagreements Turned Into Disappointments........what's the point of it all??

So i Got Out, i had to.... It was my only Choice
it was not easy as i was attached an had loads of memories to cling on to
but deep inside i knew i had to " Let Go"...

"If U Want 2 Fly, You Have To Give Up The Stuff That Weighs You Down.....
Whenever You try to make Positive changes in your life, you'll experience resistance.

Sometimes, the resistance is internal, meaning you vs. yourself.

Waking up earlier to exercise sucks.
Much easier to press "snooze".Politely declining that piece of kabab when your  coworkers just happen to be throwing another impromptu party...agony
Same thing with Investing time on yourself and your career.
I'm a freelancer and an entrepreneur.
Sometimes i put so many obstacles in my own way that i forget
why i wanted to start the damn thing to begin with.

That's internal resistance to change.

Usually, that type of resistance is a good sign. It means you are stretching yourself.
But along with internal resistance, you'll also face a lot of external resistance from people around you.
Here's the truth: People who criticize you, overlook you or belittle you for doing what you love don't actually understand your "WHY'.

They don't understand why your passions, dreams & desires are so important to you.Trust me,
that's totally Normal and OK.
It's perfectly ok to live a life that others don't understand.

It's perfectly OK to be a freak, the misfit, the outcast,,,

The only thing that isn't OK is giving up your unique personality or hiding your gifts because someone else shamed you into shrinking from your potential.

So today i am happy and can say...
Go out and Live Life on your own terms.
In due time, all the people who mocked u will go from disparaging u to asking,

"Hey... how'd ya do that?" And all u'll be able 2 do is
                                                                                
GRIN!!......